Cadey, you don't think I realize that!? Half my family has been in the navy and army. My uncle is in the army...but you wouldn't know that, because I'm not obsessed with him and don't talk about him twenty four seven. Look, all of this is ridiculous. I wish things would go back to how they used to be before you started dating Martin(sorry but he changed you even though you said you would never change for a guy). Even though I never said anything, I'd get so mad at you for talking about Beach nonstop. That's all you talked about and yes, I understand that he's changed and everything...but that doesn't make it okay for you to talk about him nonstop. When we were friends it's like you weren't Cadey...you were some other person. I wanted my friend back. My friend that didn't obsess over some guy.